Making excuses...

Do we, as girls, make up excuses for his every bad move? Or we do kick a big fuss out of it? Are we guilty of a little of both?

Instinctively, we make excuses to refrain from the harsh reality that will ultimately hurt us ….this tactic is used mainly in “code red” circumferences…i.e. he comes home late, citing a lot of work as an excuse and we accept.

Or goes off to Thailand on a monthly basis to set up a factory (when he is the financial manager ) and we shrug nonchalantly *incredulous snigger* .

Or decline your overtly sexy little play in bed, blaming migraine and we "mother" over him (feminist or not, only women are allowed to use this excuse!!)….

We only kick a big fuss when we want ATTENTION…attention is never enough…a girl can not be fully “bahagia” without the endless shower of love…in and out of bed, to her, to her family and to her friends.

So, when it is not attention that we want…why make excuses? When it is blatantly clear that he is just not into you…shouldn’t you take the cut and get on with your life?

Apparently, I have been seeking excuses after excuses for him. Even dG is guilty of it. When he didn’t call last night, I had to share the “crushing” pain. So I called dG.

dG: Maybe he got into an accident and was injured
Me: I sure as hell hope so!
dG: chuckling

Why am I still clinging on to making excuses for him? Is it hopelessly hopeful that hoped the reason he didn’t call was because he did not have access to his mobile?!! Haha…that is such a lame excuse even I m laughing at myself!

Say you will call when you do intend to call…otherwise, give me the cut and tell me to stop bugging you…because trust me, I will. In fact, I am never going to call HIM. Lets go find another model to try out.